On October 27, 2018, we hosted the 1st Annual Domestic Violence Survivor Celebration at a private location in Chicago, IL. The 1st of it's kind, we were able to bring awareness to topics of domestic abuse, mental health, substance abuse, suicide, and legal options. In addition to this, we had various resources available onsite through our sponsors and vendors. A portion of the proceeds benefited a domestic violence housing agency in Chicago. Since then the #NotByMyOwn movement has grown to include its own nonprofit organization, Not By My Own Community Inc. and will be bringing forth this special event not only to fundraise, but to continue to spread awareness.
It is our belief that awareness and resources should be provided 365 days of the year. To help with that, our nonprofit hosts bi-annual events filled with resources for those impacted by domestic violence, sexual assault, and child abuse in addition to monthly and annual mentorship programs for women. Not By My Own Community, Inc., mission is to help survivors of domestic violence rebuild their lives; by providing a safe place for women to experience a life of wholeness through Jesus Christ.
With that said, we have partnered with a Chicago based paint n sip company to host survivors and their friends/family for the #NotByMyOwn Paint N Sip Brunch. Admission is $55 and will include your paint materials and instruction; brunch; beverages; access to vendors; swag bag; and your very own painting that you can take home as a souvenir and reminder that you are never alone in this journey. #NotByMyOwn
Registration is available now for attendees, donors, and sponsors. Vendor spaces are sold out. Volunteers are welcome and nonprofit Domestic Violence resource tables are complimentary; inquire about volunteer and resource table opportunities via email to notbymyowncommunityinc@gmail.com. A separate registration link will be sent to volunteers and nonprofit organizations. Donations are accepted and will benefit Not By My Own Community, Inc. programming. Space is limited as this will be an intimate event to celebrate life beyond abuse. Please note the location is private and will be released to registered participants prior to the event along with instructions for parking and options for transportation.
FAQs
What to Do If You Are Sick?
In accordance with the CDC, we are following their guidelines closely to promote safety. If you are sick or have been exposed to someone who is, stay home. https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/if-you-are-sick/steps-when-sick.html
Can I attend virtually?
If you have already registered or plan to register by October 3rd and reside within IL you can purchase a general admission ticket and make arrangements with the organizer to pick up your paint materials and swag bag prior to the event. A separate link to watch the paint n sip will be provided to the email on file. To make arrangements to participate virtually email notbymyowncommunityinc@gmail.com. We will not ship paint materials out of state.
Strict Mask Policy
Attendees are required to wear masks while attending the paint n sip. A face mask will be provided to all attendees upon entry as a courtesy after a temperature check. Masks must be worn in accordance with the City of Chicago regulations. Anyone refusing to wear a mask will be asked to leave. https://www.chicago.gov/city/en/sites/covid-19/home/health-orders.html Additionally, social distancing will be encouraged and hand sanitizer available upon entry and throughout the event.
How can I contact the organizer with any questions?
Email notbymyowncommunityinc@gmail.com with any questions.
What's the dress code?
Feel free to wear any of the awareness colors: purple for Domestic Violence, teal for Sexual Assault, or royal blue for Child Abuse Prevention.
What's the refund policy?
No refund on tickets purchased. All sales are final and a portion of the proceeds will benefit Not By My Own Community Inc.
Photo and Video Agreement: By attending this event, you agree that Whit Devereaux Enterprises, its employees and agents have the right to photograph, videotape and record me at this event and use my photographed, videotape and/or recorded name, likeness, voice, and statements to promote this event and Whit Devereaux Enterprises, including without limitation, a derivative use, without compensation to you, at the sole discretion of Whit Devereaux Enterprises and you release Whit Devereaux Enterprises, its agents, affiliates, and licensees from all liability connected to their use of my name, likeness, voice or statements including, without limitation, any right of privacy or publicity claims.
Are there any discount codes available?
For a limited time tickets will be 20% off using code MLK on 1/20/2020 ONLY. Happy Martin Luther King Jr. Day!
What are my transportation/parking options for getting to and from the event?
There is both metered and free street parking and the venue is accessible by car and public transportation.
Why is the location private?
The venue is private due to the nature of the event. We want to ensure that our survivors feel safe while celebrating life beyond abuse.
Are there any group rates or discounts?
Yes, we have a girlfriend special for groups of 4. If you have a group over 5 you can request a discount code via email. Email notbymyowncommunityinc@gmail.com to inquire about a code for your group.
Are children allowed?
Children may attend, but will need a ticket to participate in the painting instruction and must be 10 years or older. Children must be supervised by their parent/guardian at all times.
Do I have to be a Domestic Violence Survivor to attend?
No; if you or someone you know has been impacted by abuse or trauma of any kind then this is for you to attend! If you just love painting, brunching, and sipping then this is for you to attend! If you want to support a worthy cause then this is for you to attend! Your attendance will help raise awareness on the topics of Domestic Violence, Sexual Assault Awareness, and Child Abuse Prevention.
Participating Vendors:
Vendors will be allowed 1 hour for set up time and 1 hour for break down time. As a vendor, you will be responsible for bringing the following items: Table (s), Chair (s), Table Cloth (s), advertising materials, and your products/services. Once you have registered, someone from the team will contact you via email and you will be given all pertinent info needed to be successful at this event!
Lodging Accommodations for out of town attendees:
If you are coming from out of town and are in need of recommendations for lodging accommodations, please contact us via email at: notbymyowncommunityinc@gmail.com. We will be happy to assist you!